Homosexuality Debate

I have been hearing about a debate that is going to be occurring on Friday in either one or a couple IS 101 classes about whether homosexuality is wrong and if it is a sin or not. Today I have had the privilege of spending seven wonderful months with my girlfriend. I don't think I could ask for anyone more perfect for me or anyone that could make me happier. So clearly this is an issue that is very close to heart for me. This debate concerns me because I feel like it is only going to cause problems and crate unwanted tension between people. I have always kind of had an odd view of homosexuality and homophobes. While I do feel that homophobia is an issue and I clearly believe that it is okay and I am proud of my sexuality I know that trying to shove it down peoples throats and trying to force them to agree is going to get people nowhere. I want other people to be respectful of my choices, feelings and beliefs so I try to be respectful to those who may have differing opinions. I don't like conflict and I don't like being disrespectful but I don't want to feel like I can't be myself in public. A lot of homosexuals overcompensate and seem to shove their pride for their sexuality in other people's faces and I don't think that's any better than homophobes shoving their anti-gay beliefs in our faces. I still am proud of myself but I do it on a reasonable, respectful level. I'm honest and open about it especially if someone asks me a question, I don't try to hide my sexuality, I openly talk about my relationship no differently than I would if I instead had a boyfriend, and I always have my rainbow earring in and my rainbow pin on my lanyard. But don't get me wrong I am not afraid to fight for what I believe in and stand up for myself or others if they're being treated unfairly, rudely or are being attacked because of their sexuality. If someone were to get in my face or anyone else's and say that homosexuals are an abomination, or disgusting, or should go to hell I will gladly roll my sleeves up and let them know how I feel and put them in their place without hesitation. The way I feel about it all is that you can have your own opinion all you want just keep it to yourself and don't treat others as lesser because they are different from you.